Thursday, January 22, 2009

Capable of Kindness

Ever wondered why the world you take for granted is often so stunningly beautiful? So pleasant to live in? Why the people around you are capable of so much kindness? 

I read this bit in a book I'm currently reading and was reminded of this past Saturday morning's event: getting a flat tire on 29. I had a feeling when I left that morning at 8 am that something wasn't right with my car. Thirty minutes into the drive, I stopped at a gas station to see if I could pump in some air in the tire. I couldn't even screw off the cap in the tire so reasoned with myself that it must be a sign that it has enough air. I prayed that I could just arrive home without a disaster. Well, God having a sense of humor, 10 miles away from home, I heard the loudest rumbling noise imaginable and realized that my front left tire was dying on me. I pulled over on the right shoulder and called my mom right away to tell me what to do. 

While waiting an hour and a half for roadside assistance to arrive, four strangers and two cops stopped to help and/or make sure I was safe and okay. Assuming that the cops stopped out of duty, I won't focus on them here. Rather, I want to thank those kind souls that didn't have to stop but did. 

The first man stopped 5 minutes after I pulled over. I truly believe that he was Godsent.  He told me, "Yesterday I saw someone pulled over and I REALLY wanted to stop and help but I was two lanes away and couldn't and I just thought GOSH! So today I saw you and knew that this was my chance. Can I help you?" I was touched by his desire to help but couldn't escape my unwillingness to be helped so I lied to him saying I didn't have a spare tire. I didn't want to waste his time. He sighed and told me to have a blessed day. 

The second man pulled up his SUV behind me. "Can I help you? It'll only take a couple minutes." I thanked him but assured him that "help was on its way." He asked again a second time if I just want to do it now and I told him, "No really its okay." 

The third man, wearing a West Point sweater, stopped and came over, "Hi! Let's change this tire!" I explained my situation of waiting and he said, "Okay....I just know that if my wife or daughter were like this, I would want someone to help them too." I thought this man had such kindness in heart to be thinking of strangers as his own family. 

The fourth man pulled up his Lexus convertible with a Florida license plate. He asked if I was okay and if there was anything he could do. 

I hated having a flat tire but it was really wonderful to see the kindness of the people around me. Not just the ones that stopped but also the ones that I am sure saw me and prayed that God would send me help. And indeed He did. But I didn't accept it. Or did I? 


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